Twin Flame Phases or Stages and Signs. When you find your twin flame (which isn’t the same as your soul mate), you can expect a rollercoaster of emotions. There is more to this type of relationship than meeting your soul mate and living happily ever after. Twin Flame relationships are notorious for their volatility.
Identifying your twin flame can take up to seven phases, but these five to seven are common. I want to share with you the seven ups and downs of a twin-flame relationship, in case you are in the middle of one or if the universe is about to introduce you to the love of your life and you want to be ready.
- 1 Twin Flame Signs & Symptoms: What Are They?
- 2 Stages of Twin Flame
- 2.1 Stage1. Meeting Your Twin Flame
- 2.2 Stage 2. Discovering your Twin Flame and the awakening that follows
- 2.3 Stage 3. Your Soulmate Connection Test
- 2.4 Stage 4. Love Crisis Between Twin Flames
- 2.5 Stage 5. Twin Flame Chase
- 2.6 Stage 6. Giving Up on Each Other
- 2.7 Stage 7. Mind, Body, and Soul Reunion and Joining
- 2.8 Stage 8: Oneness
Twin Flame Signs & Symptoms: What Are They?
Among the most common signs of twin flames are:
- There is a profound connection between you two on an intuitive level.
- There are a lot of things you have in common
- Thoughts and feelings are the same for you both
- You both have a natural attraction to one another
- The same dreams are shared by both of you
- Your understanding of each other is effortless & natural
- Authenticity is the foundation of your relationship
Stages of Twin Flame
Stage1. Meeting Your Twin Flame
The search stage is characterized by a deep sense of yearning and a strong sense that something is missing from your life.
This is the point when you begin to feel that there is a perfect match for you out there, even if you’ve never considered soulmates or twin flames before.
You’re likely to doubt this feeling at first, and you won’t know what to do with it. However, you’ll find it hard to shake the certainty that you’ll meet “the one” at the deepest level.
Searching for your soulmate is also about preparing your life for its arrival, even if you are not aware of it.
Stage 2. Discovering your Twin Flame and the awakening that follows
In this second, awakening moment, you physically meet, and the realization of your compatibility hits you square in the face.
Your meeting is most likely a chance meeting filled with coincidences and small signs that it was meant to be.
Even brief touches can let you know that something special is happening, even if you don’t spend much time together.
Additionally, the awakening might occur in a dream, which means that you might meet your twin flame in a dream before ever meeting them in person.
Stage 3. Your Soulmate Connection Test
It is the test stage of a twin flame experience where you try to understand your bond with this other person.
Are twin flames capable of falling in love? It’s all about setting boundaries, putting your limits to the test, and moving on from that first delightful sensation.
Once you’ve experienced a “honeymoon” period, you’ll be able to proceed to this stage.
Additionally, if you want to have a meaningful, long-term relationship, this is a critical stage.
Stage 4. Love Crisis Between Twin Flames
While this love can be blissful, it will inevitably lead to problems.
This can be painful, but the good news is that in the long run, it can create a deeper, more durable bond.
It is characterized by intense anxiety and concerns about your relationship with your mirror soul partner, and the crisis can be anything at all.
You may be experiencing a strain on your relationship with your twin flame due to loss, betrayal, or other factors.
Despite their magical compatibility, this is generally when the two people decide to part ways.
Stage 5. Twin Flame Chase
Regardless of how the crisis stage appears, it is always followed by a running or chasing stage.
Any of the two roles may be yours, and you may switch back and forth between the two roles.
During this stage, one distances themselves from the other. The reason behind this is usually out of fear of confronting the depths of intimacy that you can experience together.
As a twin, this child will be in agony and will display defensiveness and resistance. In the meantime, the other twin flame will pursue him, convinced that the link is worth battling and developing.
During this stage, the chasing twin must give up trying to flee and the running twin must give up trying to catch up.
As this stage comes to a close, both twin flames often realize that forces beyond their control are at play.
Stage 6. Giving Up on Each Other
During the surrender stage, both of you will begin to relinquish control over your relationship.
Surrendering in this situation does not mean giving up on your bond, but rather accepting the fact that neither of you can escape your fate.
This is a liberating discovery that allows you to let go of old fears and live more in the moment, trusting that the universe will help you along the way.
It’s important to remember that you can only pass the surrender stage if you address the issues that lead to the crisis as well as the running/chasing stage.
Stage 7. Mind, Body, and Soul Reunion and Joining
When you and your twin flame reach the stage of reunion, you will feel relieved that the balance has been restored.
By going through the previous, difficult stages, you will have learned a lot about yourself and the potential of the love you have found.
Some twin flames will be touched during this reunion. One of you may eventually return to the same location as the other. Or you may decide to consummate your relationship by sharing a home.
Stage 8: Oneness
Your relationship will undergo a period of soul reunion as difficulties become easier to handle.
During stage eight, you and your partner are likely to discover a shared meaning, passion, or because that gives you both a sense of fulfillment.
Relaxing the ego allows us to learn virtues such as forgiveness, understanding, empathy, and patience. You will feel a greater sense of ‘Oneness,’ or death of the ego, the more diligently you both work through each difficulty.